
Legal Definition
- Divorce:
A divorce ends a valid marriage. It acknowledges that a legal marriage existed, but the couple has decided to dissolve it. - Annulment:
An annulment declares that the marriage was never legally valid to begin with. In the eyes of the law, it’s as if the marriage never happened.
Grounds (Reasons)
- Divorce Grounds:
- Irreconcilable differences (no-fault)
- Adultery
- Abandonment
- Cruelty
- Imprisonment, etc.
(Varies by state, but “no-fault divorce” is available everywhere in the U.S.)
- Annulment Grounds:
- Fraud or misrepresentation (e.g., one spouse lied about big things like wanting kids, religion, or already being married)
- Bigamy (one spouse was already married)
- Incest (marriage between close relatives)
- Underage marriage (without proper consent)
- Mental incapacity (one or both couldn’t understand what they were doing)
- Force or coercion
Legal Effect
- Divorce → Ends a valid marriage.
You may have to divide property, deal with alimony, and decide custody issues. - Annulment → Erases the marriage as though it never existed.
There’s usually no division of marital property, since legally, there was no “marriage.”
However, courts can still decide custody or child support if children are involved.
Religious vs. Civil
- A civil annulment is granted by a court.
- A religious annulment (like from the Catholic Church) is separate — it doesn’t have legal effect but affects religious standing (e.g., whether you can remarry in the Church).
Timing
- Divorce can happen any time after a valid marriage.
- Annulment usually must be filed within a short time after discovering the reason that makes the marriage invalid (varies by state).

Dealing with Difficult Exes During Divorce
