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Discussing Divorce With Your Kids

Telling your children that their parents are splitting is one of the hardest conversations you may ever have. No parent tells their children the same way, and no child reacts the same way. It's hard to know exactly what to say when you're separating or divorcing, but there are a few common …

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Gray Divorce

The divorce rate has doubled for people over 50 since 1990, according to the AARP. This is for a variety of reasons: people living longer, children not being used to stay together, and a smaller stigma about couples splitting. Also, there are more women working, and some are earning more than their …

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Initial Steps to Divorce Recovery

How you handle the first few months of a divorce may determine how quickly you recover. Some people bounce back, begin dating and don't feel extreme depression after only a few months. Some people take years to recover, and some people never really get over their divorce. It's a great idea to make a …

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Divorce and Finance: A New Perspective

Most people are given one piece of solid advice when they divorce: get a good lawyer. There are many law firms in Orange County, but finding an attorney that specializes in family law and that is experienced and credible is extremely important. Many people in relationships don't control finances at …

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The Post-Divorce Rebound

We've all heard of the breakup rebound. No one wants to be "a rebound" and most people think you should stay away from making that type of "mistake." Most divorce experts will tell you to stay away from people you're interested in and refrain from dating or one night stands when you first split. …

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Dating Mistakes Post-Divorce

Dating post-divorce is always a discussed topic. People often feel alone and they think they're the only people dating over 40. Obviously, that's not true. More than half the marriages in the nation won't last, and more than 75% in California won't last. So if you're older, single and dating in …

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A New Way to Cope

You can find thousands of articles and books on how to cope with a divorce. Everyone knows a divorce or separation can be difficult, but everyone handles it differently and no one can tell you exactly how best to deal with the transition. Author Pamela Dussault recently shared that discovering who …

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The Darkness Before the Dawn

Your marriage is clearly ending. Your relationship is obviously over, and you both agree that divorce or separation is the only option. However, you have children and decide to try to make things as smooth as possible. So you both think that unlike many divorces, yours won't be messy. You'll …

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How to Divorce and Keep Costs Down

Most people can't really understand why divorce is so expensive until they've gone through it. There are many unforeseen expenses related to a separation or divorce that can hit you by surprise. The end of a marriage can cost a few thousand dollars or a few hundred thousand dollars... so be careful. …

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Summer Divorce in Orange County

There is no good time for a divorce. It is a complicated and sensitive situation that challenges you as a person. There are two very different aspects of a divorce- the legal and the emotional. However, it is a battle for you to fight. It is imperative that your children are not put in the arena …

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