Bohm Wildish: Divorce Advice - If there's ever a time you need distraction, it's when you're going through a divorce. Ending a marriage or separating from someone that has been the center of your world can take over all of your thoughts. It's important to think about the divorce when need be, but …
Five Lessons Learned from Divorce
Bohm Wildish: Orange County Family Law - People always say that we learn and grow the most when life isn't easy. But is that true when dealing with something as awful as divorce? Absolutely. No one wants to divorce until they realize they really need to, and it can be devastating. But there is a …
Four Things To Never Tell Yourself Post-Divorce
Bohm Wildish: Post Divorce Tips - We can all be our own biggest critic. When a big part of your life has changed or you're in a transition period and can't find someone to blame, many of us blame ourselves. This can be very unhealthy post-divorce or separation, and it can really hinder your recovery …
Why It’s Better to Be a Single Parent
Bohm Wildish: Divorce Advice - Being a single parent is not an ideal situation. No matter how you spin it, almost everyone agrees that having two parents is better than one. However, being a single parent post-divorce or separation gets a worse rep than it deserves, and there are advantages to …
Positive Effects of Divorce on Children
Bohm Wildish - Divorce Advice: People spend a lot of time talking about how hard divorce is on children, and they're right. The home with their mother and father is all most kids have known since birth, and tearing that apart can be very challenging. It often turns into the most traumatic event of a …
Divorce and Anger
Bohm Wildish: Divorce Advice - In a recent post we talked about hating your ex post-split, and who's that really hurting. We all can agree that anger isn't helping us at all, but can we recognize when we're too angry? If your anger over a messy divorce or a sour-ending marriage is justified, should …
Valentine’s Day After Divorce
Bohm Wildish, Orange County Family Law Firm: Valentine's Day is a day full of love and happiness for many people, and a day of loneliness for many others. People who have recently gone through a divorce or separation, or who are currently in the process, might have it hardest. Romance and love seems …
Hate Won’t Help
We see people every month from Orange County and Los Angeles, California looking to divorce who start fuming when speaking of their soon-to-be-ex. Divorce can be very trying, and it's ok to be upset. But once the divorce is over, it's time to move on. People tend to forget that holding onto to the …
Let Your Children Be Children
Bohm Wildish :: Divorce Advice - The new year is underway and your divorce is recently finalized. The next few months are challenging and pivotal. Marriage and family therapist Marie Hartwell-Walker, Ed.D. recently outlined one of the biggest mistakes recently divorced parents make in a HuffPost …
A New Year’s Resolution: Divorce?
Salon.com states that divorce is almost as popular of a new year's resolution as losing weight! That may seem surprising, but there are several reasons for this. For example, many affairs are discovered during the holidays. The "new year, new life" mantra also leads many people to rediscover …
